Complicated? Oh yeah..
Rewarding? Oh yeah!!
Have you ever noticed this “relation” “ship” meaning perception? Is it really about a ship that 2 partners decide to take? I’m not sure that when they take it, they do know where their destination is..They are just happy and excited about the journey..A lot of times they are not very prepared for the storms they will face..but maybe that’s better! Because they’d be afraid if they knew and they’d never go for it! And you know what? It’s not about the destination, It has nothing to do with it! The journey…Yes it’s all about it
I was never a relationship expert! I didn’t pay that much of attention on enhancing relationships and giving tips and advises since I’m kind of feminist..so it happened to me not to understand why is to so hard to dump someone who’s not good for you??
Even when I started to read about life coaching, I somehow wanted to avoid the “relationships” part, and I remember one of my mentors who told me you ain’t gonna make it this way..a life coach cannot be specialized, a life coach helps his people in every aspect of their lives, the aspect that they want to work on ..
And this is when the story began: I started to face the weirdest and toughest challenges about relationships. One experience after another for almost a year now where I faced INTENSE feelings of love, solitude, anger, boredom, disappointment, frustration, deception, and worst of all FEAR..
But what I realized the most is relationships are more about Giving rather than receiving, and when I say giving I don’t mean to give with the intention of receiving, I mean Giving because this “someone” means a lot to you and seeing the smile on his/her face is your reward.